Iam waiting to find out if I hold advanced Melanoma & CAN'T describe a soul(My Mum is still recovering Cancer.Trea

Iam really scared and don't know what to do?Sick next to worry,that if Mum finds out,it will bring a major set vertebrae in her reclamation,(6mth of radical radiation & chemo).Do I run to another Dr.? Do I tell anyone?Please..anyone who can give a hand me to smile,or tell me Iam an idiot..Iam at a LOSS to anything that make sense right now.


Answers:    I myself have stage 3 Melanoma (still ok after 14 years)...Anyway - if you are waiting to find out if it has advanced - my experience is that you already own had any a biopsy and/or surgery. If so your mother maybe waiting on the results as you are...Since you have perhaps no defence to be concerned about the possibility of advanced Melanoma - back as mentioned above (biopsy - surgery) - I am not clear about if you have mentioned to your mom that you were going own a spot checked by Dermatologist - but if you did she is already wondering how that appointment went. So If she asks you as to what the Doctor said roughly speaking the spot - mole - feckle and so on - Please tell her that you are waiting to hear stern from the doctor - this is what a mother wants (even if she herself is thriving through a fundamentally difficult time)...I am a mother as well and even if my daughter mentioned to me that she be going to see a doctor about a questionable concern - and as I too enjoy been through not lone one year of radiation - chemo for my 1994 melanoma - I also have be recently begin treatment with interfero for a liver disorder. And again I would hold a set back if my daughter be to keep her medical - issues - any good or impossible from me...Mothers are like that ....I convey you well wishes and - more importantly, why would you progress to another Dr. that is crazy address...(perhaps - clarity about your situation would be helpful)...wanting to move about to another Dr. while if you do have melanoma already - would not be surrounded by your best interest and that again would later really prove to be (god forbid) setback for your moms seizure - Take it from me - A doctor in 1991 told me that he have concern about small spot on skin and to jump see a dermatologist - well I did **(3 years later)** and what could of be a simple biopsy stage 1 melanoma became stage 3 next to major surgery and treatment that I would not decision on my worst enemy - adjectives the while I had a 3 year infirm to raise as a single parent..this answer is near honest good intentions. Warmly, Maureen DBA:TarotVisions
Maybe it's better if you hold it quiet for very soon, until you find out for sure.

If you are diagnosed with cancer, you could catch a lot of support from your mom, she have been though it adjectives and can understand what you are going through better than anyone else. You can seize through it together.

Also, do you have a close friend or another shoulder to cry on? It might assistance you relieve stress and worry contained by the short term.

Good luck!
CALM down. Its heart warm that you care so much for your mother, really it is. Your an idiot not recitation anyone though! It'll just form you feel really, really discouraging. Talk to some friends, or maybe a counseler. Keep a diary, and try and look on the bright side of duration, I know its hard. I choice oodles and bundles of luck to you and your mother! xx lulu.

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